My husband is a liar and a cheat. He has cheated on me from the beginning, and when I confront him, he denies everything.
What's worse is that everyone knows he cheats on me. It's so humiliating. Also, since he lost his job 6 years ago, he hasn't even looked
for a new one.

All he does all day is smoke cigars, cruise around, and talk with his buddies,
while I have to work to pay the bills. Since our daughter went away to college, he doesn't even pretend to like me, and
hints that I may be a lesbian. What should I do?

Signed: Clueless


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Dear Clueless,

Grow up and dump him. Good grief, woman! You don't
need him anymore! For
God's sake...You're a United States Senator from
New York running for
President of the United States . Act like one!